December 17, 2009
Egg Donation – Motivations
MOTIVATION
Why Women Seek Donated Eggs
The inability to conceive is deeply painful for most infertile women. One woman told the Liverpool Daily Echo that she was devastated by the news that she had gone though early menopause. “I just cried and cried when I realised it meant I would not ever be able to conceive naturally,” she said. “We have thought about adoption, but I feel it is my right as a woman to have my own baby and to experience being pregnant.” Though the pain at being told you will never reproduce is extreme, it is doubtful that anyone has the right to have her own baby. People may have the right to reproductive freedom. If the state, for instance, intervened by preventing certain people from reproducing, those people’s rights would be violated. But a natural inability to conceive is not a similar violation of one’s rights. Even so, many women feel that they are being denied a good that is rightfully theirs—motherhood—and will pursue it at all costs. If a woman’s infertility issues are related to ovulation, donor eggs may resolve her infertility. This creates a powerful pull toward seeking donated eggs. The Western Mail quotes one woman as saying, “At the moment there is a feeling of incompleteness, that our lives are not fulfilled. [Finding an egg donor] would make us really happy and bring absolute joy to us.” Her husband added: “It would be fantastic to have a child – it would make my life complete. I would have someone to share my passions in life, in sport and in culture, with, my language and my lifestyle.” Phrases such as bring absolute joy to us and make my life complete betray a bit of an imbalance. Children cannot supply absolute joy or completeness in life, and to place this expectation on one’s offspring is to burden them with a weighty load.
Those seeking egg donation ought to determine whether their expectations are unreasonable, and whether the costs (emotional, medical, monetary, social, etc.) are worth the risks involved. They also ought to ask why they consider egg donation a better option than adoption. Often, people downplay adoption because they want “their own” children. But egg donation denies parents a child who is genetically theirs anyway. The reason it is chosen over adoption might be the greater proximity to having “one’s own” children, including the process of bearing and birthing the child and the potential for a genetic link to the father. My point here is not that all people who seek egg donation are driven by a wild and irrational pursuit of children at all costs, but that those who are considering egg donation ought to examine their motives before proceeding.
Why Women Donate Eggs
Two main motivations exist for women who donate: altruism and money. Some women donate specifically to an infertile relative. Others donate to help pay for college or to get out of debt. Few women claim finances as their primary motivation. Donor women are portrayed in the media as altruistic, as wanting to help others start families. No doubt this picture is often accurate. But a comparison between egg donation rates in the Unites States, where financial compensation is not regulated, and the United Kingdom, where it is capped at the equivalent of $400 USD, is revealing.
An article in the Bristol Evening Post quotes Pip Morris, manager of donor recruitment at the National Gamete Donation Trust, as saying: “There is a shortage of donors throughout the UK and it is basically because people are not aware that they can help others.” His explanation does not quite hold, though. The article, written November of 2008 refers to campaigns “launched in London, Birmingham, Liverpool and Manchester to encourage more women between the ages of 18 and 35 to sign up to be egg donors,” but donors have not come forward in sufficient numbers to meet the demand. Women in the UK typically wait years for a donor.
An August 2009 article in the Times Online (London) shows a debate over proper donor compensation. The side that argues for increased compensation (moving from $400 to $1100) says: “We have never had enough egg donors in the UK. The kind of woman who donates her eggs is usually someone with a social conscience who has witnessed a family member experience the heartache of childlessness.” And that’s where the problem lies. Not enough women are sufficiently motivated by altruism. Dr. Tony Calland, Chairman of the British Medical Association ethics committee, says: “We remain steadfastly against any payment for gametes. […] We feel that paying donors might encourage some people, who would not otherwise, to put themselves at risk of medical intervention.” However, here in the United States beginning egg donors are compensated $5000 on average, which is 12.5 times the amount deemed suitable in the UK. Lack of regulation on compensation means American clinics can offer amounts as high as they have to in order to attract donors. And if compensation is too high it is hard to see this practice as egg donation instead of egg selling. Furthermore, if compensation is a motivation, and clinics benefit financially from drawing in more donors because that means they can serve more clients, then the potential for abuse begins to escalate.
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